Why Love Hurts ?

“It’s no surprise, then, that the mind and body are affected when love is unrequited or a romance goes sour. The impact on a person's mood and behavior can be dramatic. In various stages of love, people exhibit signs of mania (elevated mood, inflated self-esteem), depression (insomnia, tearfulness, loss of concentration), and obsessive-compulsive disorder (preoccupation, frequent checking for e-mail and text messages, pre-date hygiene rituals). Indeed, for thousands of years, lovesickness was accepted as a legitimate medical diagnosis, which gives the term "madly in love" a new dimension."

~ AOL Health Watch.

Ok, that medical says which are quiet unusual stuff, when love is unrequited or locally you say breakup. I never felt like this two years back, thanks to God no bug impure me at all. That’s doesn’t mean I was flirt. There was dramatic change in my mood; I tried to spend more time with my family and friends to just forget all the things, which is not easy. And very important thing I felt I was more in love after the breakup which is quite typical thing and sometime you can’t stop your self. But, then you realize that really love hurts.

"Why is it that we don't always recognize the moment love begins, but we always recognize the moment it ends? "

Live in the PAST !

I would like to stop always thinking about the past; what I did not do mostly and what I should’ve done. I want in the future to be able to make better decisions and better choices. I want to accomplish some things so when I look back at my life I will be in peace and not regretting anything.

But, I also believe the past is the past. It’s gone forever. Now it may be good or it may be bad, but you should still look back at it from time to time and remember what it was like living then. I should be making the most of my life as it is right now. I imagine and create wonderful dreams that should come true in the future.

Sometime it’s hard to forget past and you feel you still live in the Past. Good memories pushed back to the past and you can’t forget those memories. May be this is happen when you met someone who is very special in your past. You feel good and recall past memories and want to talk to that person a lot. But, it depends how good or bad next person react? I feel uncomfortable if next person react weirdly. At, that time you live in the past and trust that he or she respond with same excitement as in the PAST.

"To live in the past or in the future may be less satisfying than to live in the present, but it can never be as disillusioning." ~ R. D. Laing

God Bless You ALL.

Being Happy !

Happiness is like a ray of sunlight which warms us and keeps us glowing. We can't live without it and if you think that happiness is a word never to be found in your dictionary think again. So, how to live happily here are the simple tips.

• A smile a day keeps all nasty feelings away.
• Thinking positive is something you have to do to keep the happy hormones and vibes around you.
• You can talk it over with your close buddies about the day.
• And very important thing, do one activity which you would love to do, like Hobbies are one area where you can get much elation doing what you love.

Here are some quotes on Being Happy, so next time you feeling down just recall these quotes and keep smiling :-)

" The best way to cheer yourself up is to try to cheer somebody else up"~Mark Twain

" Nobody really cares if you're miserable, so you might as well be happy " ~Cynthia Nelms

" Happiness is a form of courage " ~Holbrook Jackson

" Happiness held is the seed; happiness shared is the flower " ~Author Unknown


God Bless You ALL

Ist July 2008 - Life is the existence of an individual

In very simple words, death is the end of life. So in this simple definition another term is needed to be explained and that is – life. For human being, life is the existence of an individual. If we take the term existence as an easily understood one, as because not each word can be explained in a limited opportunity, we can now define death and that is “death is the end of existence”.

In our daily life death is related with the biggest stresses due to the knowledge – death ends. It is also supported by the science so far. But when the question of religion comes, specifically Islam, this knowledge changes for a religious person. So it can be easily assumed that death becomes a less stressful event for a Muslim, when he truly believes in Islam. Time has come, I believe, for science to take the definitions derived from the religions in account for the sake of increasing comfort in our everyday life.

By Dr. Mohammad Samir Hossain
Harvard Medical School of USA

Anyways, I am alive but what is the purpose of Life? I pass year after year to fulfill my necessities to get good life style, to feed my family. If the purpose of life is to become wealthy, there would be no purpose after becoming wealthy.

Then, i read Hadith from Bukhari, "Duniya mein aisey rahoo jaisey pardesi ". " Live in a world Guest "

It is difficult to live a life as a Guest in World but atleast we can try it.

Special Thanks to all of you who remember my Birthday.

God Bless you All.